“All jammed up” is a great expression. So is “in a tizzy”. Is there a phrase for thinking you have a plan and know what’s what and then realizing you have no idea what to do next? Or getting what you think you want and then being confused becauee you don’t know what to do with it. Getting something and making it happen is always more interesting to me than using it. I remember building houses for my paper dolls…I was always more interested in building the house than playing with the dolls once the house was done.